…Don’t do all the easy ones first! Start with the gorilla in the room. Once you’ve removed your greatest obstacle changing the others will feel like a walk in the park…
Just two words, enough to break a heart that loves you
And then it’s nonsense that you write novels;
Just two steps, you are on the side of “single”ness,
And then it’s useless to climb up the hills.(quoted and translated from a Turkish song Sonbahar by Halil Sezai)
We have a community around us consisting of our family, our close friends and some other acquaintances. And they are all what make us continue our lives anyway. But they are also the factors that sometimes can cause great emotional hardships on us.
You know the stuff of friendship for example. We meet friends, spend time with them, make jokes to them or have quarrels with them and so on. But when it comes to having a quarrel equal to a psychological battle, it destroys our spirits and leave us thinking “what the hell you did to make them hurt you that much?!”.
Heyy wait! Yes I know quarrels are part of life but at least we can be careful about what we are saying during a discussion if the situation is not that bad in fact. But if we do not care what we are saying during a discussion we cannot have anything to do anymore after the quarrel is over. Because everyhing has already happened and you have already hurt the one that you have just shot with your words. So after that it makes nonsense even if you write “apologize letters” or “novels that tells about your excuses for those harsh words”.
And one more point; sometimes a quarrel may give an end to a relationship of lovers. If the guy or girl has to break up for some reasons this break-up should be done in an understanding and non-hurting way, not by using bad words to try to push him/her away. Because break-up is the easiest way like walking to the other room by taking a few steps. But then there is no way back like when you find nothing when you climb up the mountain.
- “You choose your actions, not the consequences” (mybookofstories.wordpress.com)
There are unhappy people everywhere… And to be unhappy is their own decision, not anyone else’s…
Many of the people choose to be silent about what they want to believe in because of the pressure put by the society where they live, which blocks them from feeling free to express their feelings. At least they usually face the verbial slaps by the people that they want to share their own beliefs or wishes with in their own lives.
But, each of us should keep in mind that every creature lives on what they believe. Actually, this is more valid for the humankind; that is to say “for us”… We can never go on to be living if we have no aims or beliefs or ideas or even ideals since all these are the things that make us “something” in the universe and it helps our sign be noticable.
In order to be a matter/substance (unlike the physicians proves), I do not think that something does not need only the fact that “it has to occupy space or possess rest mass“… Beyond these two, they have to have spiritual meanings in the universe. They need to have mental features that are consisting of not only the reason but also the soul. Not trying to ignore the importance of the physics that is anyway right in what it proves, let’s just say this is just supposed to be said for “the humankind”. Because even if we human beings possess the rest mass and occupy some space, we are nothing without our beliefs or reason or wishes or ideals or aims and sooooooooooo on…
In this post, I just try to demonstrate the significance of the things beyond the physics. So I just wish no person should not be judged for what they believe (even if a person focuses on “the reason” while another builds metaphysical beliefs for himself/herself) because these beliefs or ideals(whatever they are) are what helps them be still alive.
The last curtain;
“Joy of life is hidden at the heart of what one wants to believe in!”
“All we believe is, in a way, all we are… Cuz belief is home to us!”
- In the Actions (thoughtfulbeliever.wordpress.com)
- To Live with Joy (lifehasacrushonyou.wordpress.com)
- project optimism: to be a lover of joy (abitcoquettish.wordpress.com)
- Believe in Yourself! (livingitoutdaily.wordpress.com)
- How to Evolve Our Brain to Experience a New Reality (nalonmit.wordpress.com)
- You Are What You Think and Do (briansmithpld.com)
Each human being or animal has a particular style of using tongue. For example; above all, people use their tongues for tasting before they eat something or when they want to know how something tastes…
However, some variations can be seen in the use of tongue individually. Followings are some examples.
– To begin with, everyone must be remembering the pose of Einstein with his tongue hanging out?
– For many types of animals, tongue is of much importance to be alive
– Ruminants has the habit of chewing the cud long time by using their tongues that look so thick and strong
– A gourmet uses it for testing the deepest taste of food
– A little child for licking some lollipops
– We shouldn’t forget the important role of tongue in “French Kiss” 😀
– In addititon to all above, some guys (or I want to call them so-called men) are really into abusing their tongues for applying psychological repression towards their friends or girlfriends or even their lifemates/wives…
In this regard I want to point out that use of tongue in the way that is unfair, offensive or hurting can cause problems you can even not expect to arise.
In order not to be violent just by using your tongue just be careful with your words (when necessary) and keep in mind that tongue is
==> sometimes a sort of weapon
– more poisonous than a serpent
– stronger than a machine gun
– heavier than a missile
– sharper than a knife
– faster than an arrow
==> sometimes a kind of sharpshooter
– with keener eyesight
– more skilled than a sniper
From now on, let’s try being milder while talking to people that never deserves violence of tongue!
Beneath this mask there is more than flesh. Beneath this mask there is an idea, Mr. Creedy, and ideas are bulletproof.
I’m not that into anarchy but I love this quote ‘cuz it has a sense and sometimes I cannot even stop thinking it’s the best way to live when I think of what governers mostly do…(wordstosense)
WE all have already learned about “what is violence” or “what are the reasons or results of wars“. Even though people are taught about such factors that have destructive and fatal effects on humankind or the society that people live in, we human beings still insist on gaining power on some useless things like “some pieces of land” or fighting being materialists desiring for money “that is indeed just a coin or paper“…
I wanted to demonstrate the violence occuring between our country that tries to protect its borders and the ones that attacks it to gain independency from it (indeed it is also their country that they even deffended against the foreign attacks in the past).
I mean there will be neverending nightmare in our society even for no reason. We are already independent altogether living in an amazing harmony, so there is no need in murdering each other anymore.
By the way, the following lines are just to refer to all the fight-lovers in general…
TO THE HUMANIMALS!
No certain times you wiped them out…
You still are searchin’ what ‘bout?
Gun of my hatred is kinda “fatal”
Piss off away! You, smooth criminal…